Commonly Asked Parent Questions

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 Children may express their sexual orientation or gender identity in various ways, such as through their interests, clothing choices, or by directly communicating their feelings. It's essential to create a safe and open environment where your child feels comfortable sharing their identity with you.

Resource: Tips for Parents of LGBTQ Youth

 Show unconditional love and acceptance. Educate yourself about LGBTQ+ issues, use your child's chosen name and pronouns, and advocate for their rights in various settings. Keep up with new laws that may impact your family.

Resource: Parents: Quick Tips for Supporting Your LGBTQ Kids

• How do I talk to my child about their sexual orientation or gender identity?
  Approach the conversation with openness and without judgment. Let your child lead the discussion, listen actively, and affirm their feelings.
  Resource: How to Support LGBTQ+ Children
• What if my child is questioning their identity?
  It's normal for children to explore their identities. Offer support, patience, and reassure them that you're there for them throughout their journey.
  Resource: Strong Family Alliance

1. How do I help my LGBTQ+ child with anxiety or depression?
   Monitor for signs of mental health struggles and seek support from LGBTQ+-affirming mental health professionals. We are not counselors so can't give guidance other than to seek out a professional that should generally not be church affiliated.
   Resource: Friends & Family Support Systems for LGBTQ+ Youth
2. Are LGBTQ+ kids more at risk for suicide?
   Studies indicate that LGBTQ+ youth face higher risks of suicide due to factors like discrimination and lack of support. Family acceptance significantly reduces this risk.
   Resource: Behaviors of Supportive Parents and Caregivers for LGBTQ Youth
3. How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly therapist for my child?
   Seek professionals experienced in LGBTQ+ issues. Organizations like PFLAG can provide referrals.
   Resource: PFLAG
4. What do I do if my LGBTQ+ child is being bullied?
   Address the issue promptly by communicating with school officials to ensure your child's safety. Advocate for inclusive policies and support systems within the school.
   Resource: Tips for Parents of LGBTQ Youth
5. How can I help my LGBTQ+ child build confidence and self-esteem?
   Encourage your child to engage in activities they enjoy, connect them with LGBTQ+ peers, and celebrate their identity.
   Resource: How to Support LGBTQ+ Children

1. How should I react when my child comes out?
   Respond with love and gratitude that they trusted you. Avoid negative reactions and reassure them of your support.
   Resource: Parents: Quick Tips for Supporting Your LGBTQ Kids
2. Should I tell family members that my child is LGBTQ+?
   Respect your child's privacy. Discuss with them who they feel comfortable informing and support their decisions.
   Resource: How to Support LGBTQ+ Children
3. How do I handle negative reactions from family or friends?
   Stand firm in your support. Educate others and set clear boundaries to protect your child's well-being.
   Resource: Parents: Quick Tips for Supporting Your LGBTQ Kids
4. How do I talk to my other children about their LGBTQ+ sibling?
   Foster open discussions, address their questions, and emphasize the importance of support and acceptance.
   Resource: How to Support LGBTQ+ Children
5. How can I educate myself about LGBTQ+ issues?
   Utilize reputable resources, attend workshops, and engage with LGBTQ+ communities to broaden your understanding. Our website is filled with videos to help you learn more from the people within the community.
   Resource: Strong Family Alliance